Friday, March 19, 2004

Trading Post Kids

Isn't it odd how easily children can make you glow from the inside out? A few weeks ago I was at the school to pick up Kira when, Gabby, one of Kira’s friends walked up behind me, put her small hand in mine and strolled down the hall with me, explaining that her mother had given permission for her to come play at our house. The gesture was so unexpected and genuine that I felt happy all day, and started thinking just how fortunate I am to have the kids at the trading post every day.

The next day I was once again standing in the school when Cindy and Tarrik, my sister and nephew, stopped to talk. As we waited for Kira, Tarrik, who is six years old, stood at my side wiggling his front tooth. Cindy looked at me with an, “If he keeps that up, I am going to faint” look, and said, “Uncle Steve, will you please just pull that tooth?” I reached in and gave the tooth a tug. It came out so easily that Tarrik didn't realize it was gone until he put his fingers back in his mouth to continue the wiggling. When all he felt was a hole, he looked at me and said, “Hey, what happened?” I opened my palm and showed him the small lump of enamel, which resulted in a broad semi-toothless grin. He immediately began asking Cindy whether the Tooth Fairy was going to arrive at their house that night. Once again, the emotion was so honest I had to smile.

Almost every day after school, Grange will peek his head through the front door of the trading post and say, “Uncle Bearwee, may I have a Starverst?” This question generally translates to, “Uncle Barry, may I have a Starburst candy?” Although Jana and I have given Barry several stern warnings about filling the kids with sweets, and reminded him that Grange’s last dentist bill was $500.00, he still keeps a bag of candy in his desk to bribe Kira and Grange, and the kids are attracted to the desk like a quarterback to the prom queen.

Having the kids in the store reminds me that Barry, Craig and I were roughly Kira’s age when we started working. We were employed at the Plateau service station south of Blanding, where we always had plenty of Pepsi, peanuts and potato chips. In fact, there was such an abundance of junk food available at the filling station that I became a bit of a pork chop. It was not until high school that I grew into myself.

Having been through that experience myself, you might think I would be a little more understanding when Kira and Grange are beating a path across the trading post porch to the cafe to spend whatever money they can scare up on candy. I have frequently witnessed Grange standing at the display counter of the restaurant negotiating with Uncle Craig or Aunt Susan when he can only scavenge a few nickels and wants to buy a Peppermint Patty. In spite of my sugar reservations, it may actually be good training for him. If he can talk those hard cases out of their candy, he may do all right in life. He should have his master negotiator certificate before he graduates primary school. Of course he won't have any teeth by that time.

The kids will frequently run into the store and duck under my desk when I am talking to a client or working on a project; just like it is their natural right. My clients have gotten used to this, and just keep right on talking. I assure them that my kids are trained not to disclose confidential information or to horn in on their business prospects.

As the kids sit under my desk, a hand will jut up from time to time and a voice will say, “More paper, please,” or “Another marker, please.” After a while, a refrigerator masterpiece will emerge and off the child will go, on to the next project. I am often reminded of a photograph I once saw of JFK in the oval office with John Jr. under his desk. I am sure JFK felt the same sense of happiness and security from having his children under his desk that I feel when Kira and Grange are crouched at my feet.

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